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When we are little we are taught that bragging is not appropriate. It’s a sign of snobbery and narcissism. To talk about how many Chanel bags you have, how many pushups you can do, or how much money you make, I agree, is not wanted. But there are some forms of bragging I do encourage:  celebrating yourself and celebrating your friends. Right now we are living in a society of self love, self promotion, filtered pictures, and an open platform to speak your mind. I am very much in the forefront of self love and self care. It’s vital to your health and well-being. But I think we need to go beyond self love and show love of others by celebrating your friends accomplishments.

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“Speak what you seek until you see what you said”

Happy Friday!! What a busy, fun week it was! Last weekend I went home to Ohio to celebrate my niece’s 1st birthday. The majority of my family was there and a few of my sister and brother-in-law’s friends. It was a nice party! My niece had cake for the first time and ended up running around screaming; I laughed, my sister recorded it on her phone, my mom was shushing her to calm down, and my dad jokingly screamed back at her. Good times. Besides the celebration I went to see The Greatest Showman with my sister and brother-in-law– SO GOOD!! Every syncopated detail was perfect, the dancing and music was fantastic, it was all truly amazing! I now have the soundtrack on repeat. It was also nice to see Zac Efron sing and dance without being the only one over 20 with out a kid in the theater…. #highschoolmusicalforever.

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“Become more aware of what’s really worth your energy”

Happy Friday!! This week…. my goodness it was the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. Tuesday I was feeling as if everything I did I was failing at. I talked about during Wednesday post. Luckily I am feeling so much better– thank you for the sweet messages. Like I said in my post, it was nothing that a good night’s sleep couldn’t cure.

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Yesterday was a little tough. I felt inadequate in everything I did; from my blog to working out to the way I looked to how smart I am, everything. It was even effecting my creativity to make a blog post. And when my creativity is being targeted I get even more self critical. I start having PTSD flashbacks from college when I studied dance. Every other Friday if we were working on a piece we had to show the ENTIRE department during the showcase. Entire department meaning every student and faculty member. You show your dance to them and each faculty member (and some students) critique it. It can be pretty embarrassing, even though it does give you thick skin. Anyway, everything I did yesterday felt as if I was not good enough, like a complete failure. I do not want to get into what sent me in this downward spiral, but it lead me to calling my mom to melodramatically say I want to quit everything. She pointed out that what was happening really does not effect my business, my personal life, who I am and also that as long as I am doing the best that I can it will be alright. Moms…. they know best.

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